So I'm going to make the assumption that you are mature and know yourself, etc., and that when you say you have no sex drive, you know what you're talking about (although I have recently begun this really rather existential or postmodern or possibly just plain weird train of thought about how everyone might feel different things to different extents, and we would never know, because we can't experience things, so maybe you have a naturally higher pain tolerance but also feel more pain than me so what we both think is normal pain is actually far more painful for you, but you just grin and bear it more, ahem, done now).
Anyways, I was wondering if your being uninterested translates into more of an apathy towards sex, as in you could care less whether you have it or not, it's not important in the least, you don't desire it but don't hate it. Or does it translate more into a thing where you don't want to have sex. Do you see the delineation I'm trying to draw? This is possibly a question you may not know the answer to.
And furthermore, (I have a ton of questions, I know), I'm kind of curious about where romance ends and sex drive begins, if that makes any sense. For example, is kissing something that does not interest you either? Or can it be very romantic?
And finally, I should probably mention that I decided to start being nosy about the exact nature of your asexuality because of your article, and also because I was wondering whether Saturday night was a whimsical-fun-type thing, or whether you were trying to make a statement, whether you were just trying to fit in with all of the drunk people, or whether it was a Daniel-thing.
Once again, please feel free to not answer any questions if they are too personal, to choose to answer them in person when we next get a chance, to delete this comment if it gets too personal, etc., as you see fit.
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Date: 2008-04-16 08:05 am (UTC)Anyways, I was wondering if your being uninterested translates into more of an apathy towards sex, as in you could care less whether you have it or not, it's not important in the least, you don't desire it but don't hate it. Or does it translate more into a thing where you don't want to have sex. Do you see the delineation I'm trying to draw? This is possibly a question you may not know the answer to.
And furthermore, (I have a ton of questions, I know), I'm kind of curious about where romance ends and sex drive begins, if that makes any sense. For example, is kissing something that does not interest you either? Or can it be very romantic?
And finally, I should probably mention that I decided to start being nosy about the exact nature of your asexuality because of your article, and also because I was wondering whether Saturday night was a whimsical-fun-type thing, or whether you were trying to make a statement, whether you were just trying to fit in with all of the drunk people, or whether it was a Daniel-thing.
Once again, please feel free to not answer any questions if they are too personal, to choose to answer them in person when we next get a chance, to delete this comment if it gets too personal, etc., as you see fit.